We all see the world differently. One of the ways we can increase our ability to encourage well is to be aware. Before giving or receiving encouragement we need to be aware of a situation. When we encourage others we cannot assume that everyone is viewing a situation from the same point as we are. Our vision of a situation can be widened by acknowledging that people looking at the exact same thing can see it very differently.
One way to make this clear quickly is to look at some optical illusions…what do you see? (I love these.)
Rubin Vase: Do you see a vase or 2 faces?
Old Woman Young Woman: Which do you see?
The Dress: Do you see a white and gold dress or a blue and black dress?
Kaninchen und Ente (Rabbit and Duck): Which do you see?
Once you get a first impression of a picture try to see it from the opposite perspective. How hard was it to view the pictures from the opposite perspective? What is blatantly obvious to us may not even be visible to someone else.
Being aware of other perspectives to the same situation may change the way encouragement is given and received.